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My recent letter to The Center for Sex Positivity

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Hello,

I just want to say that I think your organization is really fantastic. I used to live in Seattle, and thanks to your community (it was called The Wet Spot then, circa 2000) I was introduced to BDSM and the concepts of SSC when I first started exploring this lifestyle. Not everyone gets such a supportive, informed first experience, so I want to say thank you.

I also have a question about some of the language used to describe sex positivity, particularly on your FAQ section, describing What Is Sex Positive Culture:

“The sex-positive movement is an ideology which promotes and embraces open sexuality. The sex-positive movement is a social and philosophical movement that regards all consensual sexual activities as fundamentally healthy and pleasurable, and encourages sexual pleasure and experimentation.”

My question is about the wording of the particular phrase, “all consensual activities are fundamentally healthy”. I am a dominatrix, so have had many people consent to playing with me. I know very well what this looks like. However, I have also had colleagues be given consent (in transactional and lifestyle situations) to perform activities they were not fully trained in, or perhaps knew were extremely dangerous but did anyway (a sub came to me after someone had caned his kidneys- in my experience, this is universally unsafe). This sort of manipulation can mask itself as consent, but is clearly not what you mean to be included in the phrase.

So, although many activities are consented to, whether they are “fundamentally healthy” or not, I believe is sort of a naive notion. As a kinky person, I believe that it is the right of any individual to have whatever done to their body that they wish. I would hope that it is SSC if done in a BDSM context.

I know that the above statement is a carefully thought-out political movement-wide notion. It is also on many other blogs and websites that I have found about sex positivity. I am hoping that someone could possibly qualify the phrase, or start a dialogue to make it more precise. Perhaps by adding “safe and sane” to it, which are already a part of our lexicon.

Thank you for your time.

Sincerely and Warmly,

Veronica

Spreading Holiday Cheer!

Well, not really. Here are some videos that might make you giggle, as they do me. Or is it, “do I”? Well, grammar aside, enjoy:

The Legend of Crampus!

This makes me very happy.

Better Off Dead Christmas

Old Gregg

xoxo.

ZOMBIE PORN HIPPIE-DIPPY EXTRAVAGANZA!

That’s not a B movie, but the title to the latest Masocast, featuring Me!

Follow this link and know more about me than you or I will ever be comfortable with: http://www.masocast.com/2011/12/04/mistress-veronicas-zombieporn-hippiedippie-extravaganza/

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Venus In Fur

No, I didn’t get the name wrong, that’s the title of a play on Broadway that I saw a few weeks ago. It is a two person, no intermission play about a playwright who is auditioning actresses to be Wanda in a rendition of the old book by Sacher-Masoch. And I have to say, it is tremendous.

There are so many different layers to the characters, so many things they realize about themselves, so many things they bring to light about BDSM, play, beauty, gender identification, etc. I could not recommend it more highly. It is the first kind of any media I’ve ever seen, read, heard, etc., that gave a clear idea of what a healthy BDSM dynamic can embody. And it made the concept digestible for the general (well, maybe New York theater-going) public. I did infact, see it last year when it was playing in the East Village (the same actress was Wanda) and bringing it to Broadway definitely made it a bit more “accessible” I suppose. The actors seemed to be talking more slowly and the jokes may be more slapstick, but all in all, I enjoyed it again. Even if there was a 70 year old lady coughing her lungs out in the front row.

It made me think about what exactly men are wanting not just from women in general, but specifically in a BDSM context. I feel that (as I’ve written before) certain men need (and perhaps women do too) to be submissive to a goddess-like figure. If you think about the imagery in many of our photos, they do tend to invoke a sort of Kali-like figure. An unforgiving, yet seductive goddess whose wrath is imminent. However, there are many such archetypical figures a domme photo may take on. In mine, I tend to inject them with playfulness and humor. Many people stick with the vinyl or latex-clad untouchable persona, and others still even pose in bikinis.

However! Back to the play… It deconstructs the book in a very charming way, even raising questions many feminist theorists would raise about it, such as: is he forcing her into a dominant role, or does she really want it? Therefore, is the role of ice queen “dominant” in this sense even really dominant if it is specifically for another’s pleasure? After this, a series of twists and turns take place (oh, I don’t want to ruin it for you, but I sooo do!), and we are left at the end wondering whether (or perhaps knowing outright) a goddess had just visited him in the night, reflecting back to him his prejudices, his simplifications, his banalities, and his sexuality.

It is simply exquisite. Get tickets now! And think of me…

xoxo.

I don’t give a flying fuck…

What you do for a living. In fact, I prefer if you’re a plumber, or an MTA employee, or blue collar in general, because they are the people who really have to make an effort to see me.

Recently I’ve had a flurry of requests from people trying to win my “approval”…? By telling me that they are Wall Street affiliated (yeah, that’s legit… NOT) or in some way a pillar of their community. No offense, but that means nothing. Your reputation in the vanilla world has absolutely no effect on how we will interact, or how I will respond to you. In fact, my best clients are people who have to save their pennies to see me. If you really want to session, read my About Page on my website, and assess whether our interests correspond. Even better, scroll down this page and figure out if I’m the kind of person you would like to have a chat with. Better yet, knock yourself out and read the blog in it’s entirety. It might entertain you. But don’t. Under any circumstances. Think that you have a leg up on anyone else because you’re educated, wealthy, or “respected”. Write me a nice email. Give as much detail as you can without making it a novel, and then shut up until I contact you.

xoxo.

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Welcome, everyone, to the updated version of my blog! My web address is still the same, obviously, so don’t go freaking out. Find it here https://www.mistressveronicanyc.com if you already haven’t (weirdly, because that should be more obvious than coming straight to the blog…). Feel free to leave thoughts, questions, shopping lists, whatever in the comments section. Hopefully I will have my Twitter feed and Follower List to the right —> as soon as possible.

On another note, the Violent Fems party went off swimmingly as usual. Here is a nice thank you note I received today:

Thank you for another awesome party. It once again seemed to be a big success, and I know I had fun. It was great meeting Shae and seeing everyone there. It was particularly nice seeing you again.

Of all that occurred, the most lasting effect came from that fish thing you were using! I have bruises on my thighs from that thing! ! Of course, some of it could also be due to Alex’s boots, but I don’t think those are what make the marks, I thing it was that darn fish! I like the way the marks look, I think they’re awesome. I’ve washed the tights twice, and I think I can still detect a garlic smell!

I think you missed something that happened at the end of the night, just as I was saying goodbye to the crowd outside. As I turned to leave a large clove fell out from somewhere, I have no idea where. Everyone saw it and said that I was now laying garlic, like a chicken lays eggs. I picked it up to throw it away but Shae told me to put it in my mouth. Then she made me chew it, and swallow it. She stood right next to me so that she could hear the garlic being crunched in my teeth, and watched closely to make sure it was swallowed. That was really aweful. No matter what I did (brush teeth, floss, mouthwash, whiskey), I tasted that garlic all night — every time I breathed. Yuck! Still, it was memorable!

Great party!

Thanks again.

Thank YOU! And see you at the next one!

Check out the Violent Fems blog for details!! http://www.violentfems.blogspot.com

xoxox.

Behind the scenes and such of the Attack Parties…

Psychobubbles is the tape model for our body chalk outline!

Round table planning of your demise!

Outside the clubhouse in broad daylight, looking for men to punish…

Gathered around for the raffle!

Perverts, perverts, everywhere!

See you at BillyMark’s on Sunday! See blog below for details!xoxox.

VIOLENT FEMS PRE-HALLOWEEN BLOW OUT FREAK FEST!!!!!!!!!!!

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October 9th, 2011 7pm to 11pm. Billymark’s West, NYC

Come out and get your ghoul on early with The Fems as we welcome Mistress Shae Flannigan (aka The Humbler) from Los Angeles to play! We are so happy to have her as our guest Mistress, as she is well-known for her expertise in cruelty… muah ha ha! Find her website here: http://www.mistressshae.com/

So don your costume early- put on your Jason mask, paint your face like a scary clown, put on the dress you’re ashamed to wear in public- or if you really want to get on my good side, come as a zombie! Zombies in skimpy outfits get extra spanks! However you do it, prepare for spooky kinky fun! If you’re an attackee, prepare for your darkest nightmare, ahem, I mean fantasy to come true… As we see fit.

If you’ve been masturbating in your room to World of Warcraft and don’t know who we are, The Violent Fems website is here: http://www.violentfems.com Also, follow our blog: http://www.violentfems.blogspot.com and on Twitter!: @ViolentFems

We consider this party to be far far removed from the run-of-the-mill fetish party in the sense that it is more a theater in the round. We dress up, we have certain people on whom we stage “attacks” (the attackees), we use “gang” implements, mostly, rather than whips and floggers, and we’re also friendly. You will not come to the party and stand around being bored waiting for someone to play or for someone to pay attention to you. If you are patient and don’t get in our way, we eventually say hello to everyone. You just have to be patient and respectful. Should I state that one more time? Patient and respectful, thanks!

There are two tiers for this party, as you well know: $10 for observers, and $50 for ATTACKEES Don’t know what an attackee is, but are interested? PM Mme Veronica on Max Fisch or email me at mistressveronicanyc@gmail.com

**FYI, this party starts early and ends at 11pm usually, so if you show up at 10pm, you might miss a lot of the action!**

If you’ve been masturbating in your room to World of Warcraft and don’t know who we are, The Violent Fems website is here: http://www.violentfems.com Also, follow our blog: http://www.diariesofthediabolical.blogspot.com and on Twitter!: @ViolentFems

There are two tiers for this party, as you well know: $10 for observers, and $50 for ATTACKEES Don’t know what an attackee is, but are interested? PM MissVeronicaNYC or email me at mistressveronicanyc@gmail.com.

FYI, this party starts early and ends at 11pm usually, so if you show up at 10pm, you might miss a lot of the action!

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